I got an email tonight from a friend asking me to explain the impetus behind blogging. Why do it? Why share your soul with the world, not even knowing if anyone is reading.
It's a good question. In college, my thesis topic was, "A Foucauldian Analysis of the Daytime Talkshow." I analyzed the distinct approach of three different talk show towards the topic of teenage pregnancy. My analysis led me to the realization that people were basically exhibitionists at heart. People WANT to bear their souls on Oprah. Hey, a million people saw me on TV!! (Never mind the fact that it was because you slept with your midget brother-in-law.)
This sharing of our innermost thoughts makes us feel important. It makes us feel like we matter. The talk show of the 90s has become the blog of the early 2000s. We share our thoughts, hoping for... what?? Commiseration, appreciation, controversy, pity, love, a book deal...
I've always been willing and ready to share my feelings with the world. I've never been one for endless editing of my thoughts or writings. Even with important papers in college, I'd write something once and then submit it. Drafts are rare for me. I write and go. A blog, then, is a good venue for me. I can write and go. Feel like sharing a thought? Just log on and there it is. Out for all the world to see. I'm a talker. I talk more than I should. I always have.
On a related note, I just completed a presentation at my day job. We had to explain, to one of our clients, the "big deal" about blogging, and podcasts, and Vblogs, and Google Map mashups. The web is totally changing. My "boss" Mike, who's really my friend, but technically my boss, but more my friend. Well, anyway, he'll be thrilled to see my writing about work stuff (and not goat cheese). So, here's what I think. The web is totally changing. That's why the new web stuff is called web 2.0. It's all different now. We used to go to sites to get our information. We went to search engines, and tried to find what we needed. Now, everything is populated by the masses. Wikipedia is a giant encyclopedia written by who the fuck knows? But, it's mostly right. And, it's totally thorough. And free. And not in a million heavy red hardcovers. It's easy. and it's so fucking democratic.
The old search engines are totally obsolete. really, you don't even need to go to a traditional news source for your information. Here is all you need to know: (you might want to double check this with someone who hasn't had 3 martinis and met Kobe Bryant - seriously, I went out to a bar with an old friend, and there was Kobe Bryant, wearing a ridiculous fur coat - he has very soft hands - I shook one of them):
- get a bloglines (or some other similiar thing) account and populate it with all of the stuff that's important to you - mine has food stuff, parenting stuff, TV stuff, and my netflix queue - OK, I see that i'm very shallow, except for the parenting stuff, but that does include Celebrity Baby Blog, so yes, I am shallow, and will add some kind of serious CNN type shit.
- maintain all of your bookmarks on del.icio.us
- put your photos on flickr
- get a video iPod
It is ALL CONNECTED. Just do these above things. You will soon understand how different things are now. It's crazy how much everything changes.
In 1995, I was a senior in college. The internet existed, but it was kind of mysterious. I knew how to send emails, but I didn't really understand the web. My friend Abby and I realized that the web was something "big and exciting" and we knew that her friend Jon used it. We asked for a tutorial, and instead he just gave us the URL for Playboy magazine. So, the only sites I visited were those that were linked from the Playboy site. I didn't know how to find any other sites. I didn't know how to find people of like minds. Fast forward to today. I have friends that I met online JUST BECAUSE OUR KIDS WERE BORN THE SAME MONTH AND YEAR. I have friends that I met online JUST BECAUSE WE ALL HAVE WEIMARANERS. I find everything online, from parenting advice, to a stupid lamp that clamps onto my headboard so I can do my knitting without having to get up and turn off the light.
My point is this: As recent as the early 90s, it was hard to fathom how important the Internet would become to our lives. In 10 years, we will look back and say that all this web 2.0 stuff is integral to our lives. So, why do I have a blog? Because I like to be one of the first. Because I like to share my thoughts, and maybe help someone else going through the same crap that I am going through. Because I am a narcissist. Because I need to write everyday. So, to those of you wondering why I am doing this? Now you know. Kind of. :-)